Nick Meros
Mr. Nick Meros of Summerside, Prince Edward Island
agreed to an interview in July 1997. In
1980 he had come to PEI from Athens with his Canadian wife, because they
wanted to be with her mother who lived there, and because he was looking for a
less stress-filled life. At the time of the interview Mr. Meros’ children were
a girl of nine and a boy of eleven. Nick
Meros had a Masters Degree in Graphic Arts from Greece,
and had worked in advertising in Athens,
but he had found that his six and sometimes seven-day workweeks there were both
exhausting and professionally unfulfilling.
On Prince Edward Island he
happily occupied a number of jobs, and enjoyed moving from one position to
another. Since his English was already very good when he came to Canada, he
faced none of those usual language-related barriers. On PEI
he did some advertising work, some theatre work, helped with a hotel in Stanley Bridge,
and for six years produced computer graphics for the Land Registry Service of
the Island. Over and over again in the
interview he stressed how happy he was to be able to spend leisure time with
his wife and children.
Nick Meros
looked back at Greece
with great fondness because of close family ties there, and because of the
country’s strong historical and cultural past. He told the author that his
Greek family could trace its roots back eleven generations to an ancestor who
had emigrated from Hungary
to Greece.
By moving to Canada
Nick was the first to break the chain.
At one time his father had been Under Secretary for Cultural Affairs in
the Greek government, and his uncle was a noted Greek cinematographer. While acknowledging all those ties, he had no
plans to live there again. His parents
had visited the family on PEI, and at the time
of the interview his intentions for his children included a future summer in Greece with
relatives. He was almost lyrical in his praise of PEI, calling it “…a portrait place, akin to the
beautiful Athenian suburbs in the 1950s and 60s. PEI
is a place for children. I have a sense
of personal freedom, and I enjoy living in a country where there are four
distinct seasons.”
Nick Meros
wanted his children to know their Greek relations and to visit Greece, but he
did not promote Greek traditions at home because, he said, “I do not want to confuse young children by bringing in Greek culture. I am a
Greek Canadian or an ‘international person’ but they are Canadian.” His children did not speak Greek and all
family conversations were in English. Nick made it very clear that, as proud as
he was of his Greek family and background, his world and that of his family was
fixed firmly on Prince Edward Island.
Although he had one or two Greek friends, he said: “I do not want to go looking
for things and people who are Greek.”
Indeed, Mr. Meros’ interview came about not through Greek contacts, but
with the help of the Newcomers’ Association of Prince Edward Island.